Need advice.....

Sorry to bug you guys but I wanted to get a perspective from both sides...okay...What does it mean when a guy is all shy around you and is avoding you ....but he has a girlfriend....what would you do....if you both are attracted to each other but yet he has a girlfriend...do you think it should be left alone or proceed in it?.....help me out guys......plus he is 20 years old and I'm 21 years...what do you guys think???honestly!!

[marencoj]

It means that he's playin' you. Tell him to hit the road. If he's really into you, he will shake the "girlfriend". If not, you have your answer. Just remember, you could be the next "girlfriend" and he's working on his next prospect (new girlfriend and not you)

[jgutierezz0911]

My own love life is a mess, so I think I better take care of that first before I start giving advice to other people jejejeje

[MrstTrickp]

Shynicoya:
Don't blame that guy. He is doing the right thing. He has a girlfriend and he is being faithfull to her. Sorry to disappoint you. He provably likes you but he notices that he doesn't really love you. Or may be like the other said, he was just trying to have some fun with you on the side. If he really thinks that you are the one for him, he'll come to you. if not, oh well, may be you're better off.

I suggest to talk to him and be straigh up about things. Ask him what's going on, what is it that he really wants?
talking is the best way to answer your questions. Make sure all your questions are answered by the time you finish talking to him.

Any other question call me at "1800-M A L D I T O" or e-mail me @ Maldito@loveline.com


Thanks and best of luck

Maldito

[nicaragua66]

but I agree with you :P

shygirl, don't pay attention to him, just 'cuz the guy has a girlfriend doesn't mean he can't like other girls. He probably likes you but if he hasn't done anything about it, he wants to stay with his girl.
Remember guys don't throw away opportunities so don't play his game, if this is something more than just a flirty fling, it'll come to be!!

Let me remind you again, men lie like dogs and act like pigs, sorry guys but you all know it's true!!

[MrstTrickp]

you know I love you no matter what.

And for you to know, I am not a player.

[nicaragua66]

muaaaaaaah, back to you babe..
so you are not a player?? I'm really glad to hear that, I believe you and now I like you even more

So how is everything with you little one?